A Celebration of Flowers
A Celebration of Flowers
Petals, Promises & Forever
Ayanna & Jerry’s Journey to Forever
Petals, Promises & Forever
Jerry & Ayanna’s Journey to Forever
Ayanna and Jerry are delighted to welcome you to their wedding website, a space created to share the joy, love, and excitement as they begin this incredible journey together. Here, you’ll find all the essential details about upcoming celebrations, updates on their wedding plans, and a glimpse into the beautiful story that brought them here.
Their love story is one of growth, beauty, and new beginnings — much like the flowers that inspire their celebration. From their first conversation to the unforgettable proposal, every moment has been a testament to the magic of love and perfect timing.
As they prepare for their big day, the celebration begins with their
Engagement Party on:
– December 29, 2024 –
It’s the perfect way to kick off this exciting journey surrounded by love and support.
Save the Date announcements will follow in May, with details about the wedding date and location. Stay tuned for more updates as Jerry and Ayanna look forward to celebrating their love in full bloom with you by their side.
Jerry and Ayanna are deeply grateful for the love and encouragement of their family and friends. Thank you for being part of their story and for sharing in this extraordinary moment.
With love and gratitude,
Jerry & Ayanna
How We Met
Our story began two years ago in the most unexpected way — online! What started as a casual connection through a shared interest quickly revealed something far greater. From our very first conversation, it felt as though we’d known each other for a lifetime. Every message exchanged unearthed more shared values, dreams, and humor than we ever imagined. What began as simple chats blossomed into a love story that neither of us saw coming, but both of us knew was meant to be.
Our First Date
Our first official date was at 1861 Kitchen Bourbon Bar in Middletown — a night that will always hold a special place in our hearts. The intimate ambiance, incredible food, and flowing conversation created an experience we’d never forget. There was laughter, a spark, and an unspoken understanding that something truly special was taking root. By the end of the night, it was clear — we were no longer just two strangers with shared interests. From that point on, we were inseparable.
The Proposal
On September 21, 2024, Jerry turned his birthday celebration into the surprise of a lifetime. Surrounded by our closest family and friends, we gathered to honor him. Ayanna believed the day was all about Jerry — but he had something else in mind. After opening his birthday gifts and soaking in all the love and attention, Jerry shifted the spotlight. In a moment full of love and anticipation, he got down on one knee and asked Ayanna the most important question of their lives. Through tears of joy and a heart bursting with happiness, she said, “Yes!” It was a moment filled with surprise, celebration, and pure love — the perfect beginning to our forever story.
How We Met
Our story began two years ago in the most unexpected way — online! What started as a casual connection through a shared interest quickly revealed something far greater. From our very first conversation, it felt as though we’d known each other for a lifetime. Every message exchanged unearthed more shared values, dreams, and humor than we ever imagined. What began as simple chats blossomed into a love story that neither of us saw coming, but both of us knew was meant to be.
Our First Date
Our first official date was at 1861 Kitchen Bourbon Bar in Middletown — a night that will always hold a special place in our hearts. The intimate ambiance, incredible food, and flowing conversation created an experience we’d never forget. There was laughter, a spark, and an unspoken understanding that something truly special was taking root. By the end of the night, it was clear — we were no longer just two strangers with shared interests. From that point on, we were inseparable.
The Proposal
On September 21, 2024, Jerry turned his birthday celebration into the surprise of a lifetime. Surrounded by our closest family and friends, we gathered to honor him. Ayanna believed the day was all about Jerry — but he had something else in mind. After opening his birthday gifts and soaking in all the love and attention, Jerry shifted the spotlight. In a moment full of love and anticipation, he got down on one knee and asked Ayanna the most important question of their lives. Through tears of joy and a heart bursting with happiness, she said, “Yes!” It was a moment filled with surprise, celebration, and pure love — the perfect beginning to our forever story.
Engagement Photos
We are excited to share these beautiful moments from our engagement photoshoot at the breathtaking Nemours Estates, captured by the talented Errol E Photography.
A heartfelt thank you to Errol for your incredible artistry in bringing our love story to life. These photos are a treasure, and we’re so grateful to share them with our family and friends as we begin this next chapter.
Ayanna Khan
Ayanna Khan is a visionary leader, trailblazer, and champion for Black business growth and empowerment. As President and CEO of the Delaware Black Chamber of Commerce (DEBCC), Ayanna has played a transformative role in fostering economic inclusivity and creating pathways to success for Black-owned businesses throughout Delaware and beyond.
Her journey toward leadership began with a successful career in finance at a major Dow 30 communications and technology company. In 2015, she took a leap of faith and launched Khan Consulting LLC, a firm specializing in small business consulting. It was through this work that Ayanna deepened her understanding of the unique challenges faced by minority-owned businesses and resolved to do more to bridge the gap.
In 2020, Ayanna founded the Delaware Black Chamber of Commerce (DEBCC), which quickly grew into a powerful advocate for economic change. Under her leadership, the DEBCC became a national model of excellence, earning the 2023 Chamber of the Year award from the National Black Chamber of Commerce. Her initiatives have included forming strategic partnerships, developing impactful educational programs, and elevating minority businesses to new heights.
Her influence extends far beyond the chamber. Ayanna is a sought-after speaker on topics like entrepreneurship, economic development, and diversity in the workplace. Her dedication has earned her numerous awards and honors, including induction into the Delaware Business Hall of Fame, being named a DE222 Honoree by Delaware Business Times, and receiving the prestigious 2023 James Brown Award for Excellence in Advocacy for Minority Supplier Diversity from the Eastern Minority Supplier Council.
Her passion for education is evident in her role as an Adjunct Professor at Delaware Technical Community College, where she teaches future entrepreneurs. In 2023, she took the TEDx Wilmington stage to deliver a powerful talk on how workplace censorship affects women, further solidifying her role as a thought leader on issues of justice and equality.
Her remarkable work has been recognized on the global stage. She was recently awarded an honorary Doctorate in Humanities from United Graduate College and Seminary International. In an extraordinary honor, she was granted a Chieftaincy title from the King of Imo State, Nigeria, and now serves on the Imo State Kingdom council as Queen Mmiri Aku, meaning “River of Wealth.” This prestigious title reflects her commitment to being a force for good in her community and the world.
Ayanna’s impact has been highlighted in The Washington Post, US News & World Report, and The Chicago Tribune, where her story of leadership and empowerment has inspired readers across the nation. Her legacy is one of courage, advocacy, and a determination to leave the world better than she found it.
SSG. Jerry C. Flowers Jr.
Staff Sergeant Jerry C. Flowers Jr. is a dedicated soldier, leader, and family man with a remarkable 27-year career in the U.S. Army National Guard. Currently serving in the G1 Operations Division, Oversight HRM-I, at the Army National Guard Readiness Center (TARC) in Arlington, VA, SSG Flowers has consistently demonstrated a commitment to service, growth, and excellence.
Jerry began his military journey on March 3, 1997, when he enlisted in the U.S. Army. Over the years, he built an impressive career, rising through the ranks and taking on critical roles, including his position as Senior Non-Commissioned Officer (NCO) in the Enlisted Personnel Branch at the Delaware Army National Guard Joint Force Headquarters. Since 2016, Jerry has focused on administrative leadership with the Delaware Army National Guard, where he has played a vital role in the development and management of personnel operations.
His service record includes a pivotal deployment with the 1049th Transportation Co. Convoy Security during Operation Enduring Freedom in Mas-Sir Sharif, Afghanistan (2011-2012). His military education is equally impressive, featuring the Warrior Leader Course, the Army Basic Instructor Course, and extensive training as a Motor Transport Operator and Human Resources Specialist. Each of these experiences reflects his dedication to professional development and preparedness.
Jerry’s decorated career has earned him numerous accolades, including the Army Commendation Medal, Army Achievement Medal, Afghanistan Campaign Medal with Bronze Campaign Star, and the Global War on Terrorism Service Medal. His leadership roles have included Squad Leader, Assistant Team Leader with the 287th Army AG Band, Senior Vehicle Driver, and Armorer/Gunner with the 1049th Transportation Company.
Beyond his military service, Jerry is a proud father and a man of many talents. A self-taught chef, he finds joy in creating delicious meals for loved ones. He also enjoys music, physical fitness, and indulging in culinary adventures through fine dining and travel. His love for family, service, and lifelong learning are at the heart of everything he does, and these values will undoubtedly continue to guide him in the next chapter of his life.
Ayanna Khan
Ayanna Khan is a visionary leader, trailblazer, and champion for Black business growth and empowerment. As President and CEO of the Delaware Black Chamber of Commerce (DEBCC), Ayanna has played a transformative role in fostering economic inclusivity and creating pathways to success for Black-owned businesses throughout Delaware and beyond.
Her journey toward leadership began with a successful career in finance at a major Dow 30 communications and technology company. In 2015, she took a leap of faith and launched Khan Consulting LLC, a firm specializing in small business consulting. It was through this work that Ayanna deepened her understanding of the unique challenges faced by minority-owned businesses and resolved to do more to bridge the gap.
In 2020, Ayanna founded the Delaware Black Chamber of Commerce (DEBCC), which quickly grew into a powerful advocate for economic change. Under her leadership, the DEBCC became a national model of excellence, earning the 2023 Chamber of the Year award from the National Black Chamber of Commerce. Her initiatives have included forming strategic partnerships, developing impactful educational programs, and elevating minority businesses to new heights.
Her influence extends far beyond the chamber. Ayanna is a sought-after speaker on topics like entrepreneurship, economic development, and diversity in the workplace. Her dedication has earned her numerous awards and honors, including induction into the Delaware Business Hall of Fame, being named a DE222 Honoree by Delaware Business Times, and receiving the prestigious 2023 James Brown Award for Excellence in Advocacy for Minority Supplier Diversity from the Eastern Minority Supplier Council.
Her passion for education is evident in her role as an Adjunct Professor at Delaware Technical Community College, where she teaches future entrepreneurs. In 2023, she took the TEDx Wilmington stage to deliver a powerful talk on how workplace censorship affects women, further solidifying her role as a thought leader on issues of justice and equality.
Her remarkable work has been recognized on the global stage. She was recently awarded an honorary Doctorate in Humanities from United Graduate College and Seminary International. In an extraordinary honor, she was granted a Chieftaincy title from the King of Imo State, Nigeria, and now serves on the Imo State Kingdom council as Queen Mmiri Aku, meaning “River of Wealth.” This prestigious title reflects her commitment to being a force for good in her community and the world.
Ayanna’s impact has been highlighted in The Washington Post, US News & World Report, and The Chicago Tribune, where her story of leadership and empowerment has inspired readers across the nation. Her legacy is one of courage, advocacy, and a determination to leave the world better than she found it.
SSG. Jerry C. Flowers Jr.
Staff Sergeant Jerry C. Flowers Jr. is a dedicated soldier, leader, and family man with a remarkable 27-year career in the U.S. Army National Guard. Currently serving in the G1 Operations Division, Oversight HRM-I, at the Army National Guard Readiness Center (TARC) in Arlington, VA, SSG Flowers has consistently demonstrated a commitment to service, growth, and excellence.
Jerry began his military journey on March 3, 1997, when he enlisted in the U.S. Army. Over the years, he built an impressive career, rising through the ranks and taking on critical roles, including his position as Senior Non-Commissioned Officer (NCO) in the Enlisted Personnel Branch at the Delaware Army National Guard Joint Force Headquarters. Since 2016, Jerry has focused on administrative leadership with the Delaware Army National Guard, where he has played a vital role in the development and management of personnel operations.
His service record includes a pivotal deployment with the 1049th Transportation Co. Convoy Security during Operation Enduring Freedom in Mas-Sir Sharif, Afghanistan (2011-2012). His military education is equally impressive, featuring the Warrior Leader Course, the Army Basic Instructor Course, and extensive training as a Motor Transport Operator and Human Resources Specialist. Each of these experiences reflects his dedication to professional development and preparedness.
Jerry’s decorated career has earned him numerous accolades, including the Army Commendation Medal, Army Achievement Medal, Afghanistan Campaign Medal with Bronze Campaign Star, and the Global War on Terrorism Service Medal. His leadership roles have included Squad Leader, Assistant Team Leader with the 287th Army AG Band, Senior Vehicle Driver, and Armorer/Gunner with the 1049th Transportation Company.
Beyond his military service, Jerry is a proud father and a man of many talents. A self-taught chef, he finds joy in creating delicious meals for loved ones. He also enjoys music, physical fitness, and indulging in culinary adventures through fine dining and travel. His love for family, service, and lifelong learning are at the heart of everything he does, and these values will undoubtedly continue to guide him in the next chapter of his life.
Flowers of Gratitude
As we celebrate this exciting chapter of our lives, we’ve decided to focus on creating unforgettable memories for our honeymoon. Instead of a traditional gift registry, we’re asking for monetary gifts to help bring this dream to life.
We’re incredibly grateful for your love and support, which means more to us than anything. For those who would like to contribute, we’ve made it simple and convenient.
How to Give
Just scan the QR code below to donate directly to our honeymoon fund. Every contribution, no matter the size, helps make our dream honeymoon a reality.
Thank you for being a part of our journey and for helping us create beautiful memories that will last a lifetime!